Saturday, October 19, 2013
...'Don't fall in lust, fall in love'....
Someone tweeted this phrase the other day, and my response was; 'why not both'? Now, initially this was posed as a joke, but when I got the response back; 'lust is temporary and love is forever' it really got me thinking. I was SERIOUS about my response. I've experienced both feelings and what I've come to realize it that a good relationship should include both. I mean think about it.. of COURSE you want to be in love and all of that, but to be in 'lust' or to be have someone lust over you is something that you don't want to stop. I want to ALWAYS desire the person I'm in love with and for him to desire me. If not, all you have is someone that you may love and care about, but maybe not be fulfilled in other areas, and that's not good!~ Yeah, I want to 'fall in Love and Lust' and may it last forever.
Saturday, October 12, 2013
... Yup, I'm a 'BabyMama'
Yeah, I'm a 'BabyMama' and I've been one way before the phrase became popular. I don't know how I used to revere to myself back then... I certainly wasn't his girlfriend.. He had other chicks inline with that title. Such is the life in Oakland.. especially during those days. But I digress. This is so random, but I have thoughts that I need to get out.
I know a lot of people get offended by the term, and some get down right 'hostile', blaming 'BabyMama's for all that's wrong in the world. But let's us not forget that a LOT of folks were born out of 'wedlock' so to speak, or was certainly conceived before their parents were married and a lot have turned out just fine. I know that considering my situation and circumstances, my children are fine. None of my girls are promiscuous, they all graduated from High School and so far one has graduated from College. Not bad for a single 'BabyMama'.
I guess some say it's wrong for me to be proud of my position, but hey; if you gonna do it, do it right I always say. And I feel that whatever role you have, you should play it do the fullest. I keep saying I need to write a book to show what it's REALLY like to be a 'BabyMama' and how to do it right. There is levels to this shit... haha.. I like that phrase. Yeah, I stayed in my lane, maybe too much at times, but it made my life less stressful in the long run. When I see what goes on these days... these side chicks be doing the most, trying to break up relationships, talking ALL the business, I just shake my head. That's not how you do it hunty.. not at all.
I know a lot of people get offended by the term, and some get down right 'hostile', blaming 'BabyMama's for all that's wrong in the world. But let's us not forget that a LOT of folks were born out of 'wedlock' so to speak, or was certainly conceived before their parents were married and a lot have turned out just fine. I know that considering my situation and circumstances, my children are fine. None of my girls are promiscuous, they all graduated from High School and so far one has graduated from College. Not bad for a single 'BabyMama'.
I guess some say it's wrong for me to be proud of my position, but hey; if you gonna do it, do it right I always say. And I feel that whatever role you have, you should play it do the fullest. I keep saying I need to write a book to show what it's REALLY like to be a 'BabyMama' and how to do it right. There is levels to this shit... haha.. I like that phrase. Yeah, I stayed in my lane, maybe too much at times, but it made my life less stressful in the long run. When I see what goes on these days... these side chicks be doing the most, trying to break up relationships, talking ALL the business, I just shake my head. That's not how you do it hunty.. not at all.
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